Thursday, January 16, 2014

I'm Debating

Friends
I am laying here thinking.
I miss my Benny tremendously.
I am debating on rescuing a sissy or a brother.
I am getting bored beating up only stuffies.
Lily

70 comments:

  1. Ooh Lily,

    We thinks you and your sweet momma SHOULD gets a new brudder or sissy fur sure!

    Woofs and Licks,
    Maggie Mae and Max

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  2. What a wonderful idea, Lily!!!

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  3. if you are thinking about it, we bet you are close to being ready....when the time if right, you will know :)

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  4. Love is meant to be shared. Benny would be so thrilled to know you are ready. Ask Benny to help you "find" your next sibling. :) I promise you he will.

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  5. My frenchie Napolean says "Go for it, Lily! Of course no other sibling can replace Benny in your heart, but it would be so nice to have a new little buddy to share your life with" xox

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  6. It's always nice to have a friend to share things with... especially beating up stuffies!

    Sam and Pippen

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  7. In my opinion, there will be two of you very soon... Benny would be glad that you care for a rescued Frenchie.And remember, love never disappears, it just grows.

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  8. Dear Lily...Several years ago I lost my best friend (Josh) who was an Airedale mix rescue. For a year I was by myself, then my Mom found Gucci, who was a rescue from Tennessee. Since then I have been much more perky and have a sparkle in my eye. It will happen to you too. I think your Mom is ready to make a move...
    Love,
    Phoebe

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  9. We think Benny would be so happy for you to have a brother or sister to play with. We know it wouldn't be the same around here without each other.

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  10. Oh Miss Lilly,
    I was lonely too until I got my brother Harry. We play and tumble and I am so happy now. You definitely need a playmate that the stuffing won't come out of or his eyes fall off. BOL

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  11. I think it would be a wonderful idea, Lily. No one can ever replace your sweet Benny but he would want you to have fun with another playmate.

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  12. Listen to your heart, you already know the answer.
    Stella Rose

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  13. Oh dear Lily, we think it is a wonderful idea and Benny would agree. A friend once told us that the best way to honor the furbabies we have lost, is to share your love with another.
    hugs
    Mr Bailey, Hazel & Greta

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  14. Well, Lily, I live in a 10-pack (or is it a pack of 10). Anyway, I think you should have a real brother or sister to annoy!

    Hap-Pee Turdsday!

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  15. We think it is a wonderful idea, and as others have said, if you are starting to think about it, then maybe it is the right time. And we know Benny would wholeheartedly approve.

    Woos - Phantom, Ciara, and Lightning

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  16. Well Lily, I suggest you go and have a word with your Momma, and explain to her how lonely you are without a brother or sissie, and ask her if she feels ready to bring another bundle of fun into the house. I do hope she understands and says yes.
    Toodle pip!
    Bertie.

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  17. Only you and your mom know if it's the right decision! I know I would have been lost without Cammie after we lost Dave. She's my best friend now! (Maggie, too, but she's different!)
    Play bows,
    Zim

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  18. It's a difficult decision Lily.
    We lost our little girl just before Christmas and are trying to decide whether to have one 'newbie' or two ?
    Do you enjoy being the center of attention all the time more than you want to have a playmate? Very hard choice to make

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  19. Sounds Like a great idea Lily and it sounds like you and your Mama are ready too,plus Benny would want you to be lonely he would wnat you to have lots of fun with a new friend and you can tell him or her all about Benny too,xx SPeedy

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  20. We think a sissy or a brother would be very nice for you, Lily. You would always have somebuddy to play with.

    Love ya lots♥
    Mitch and Molly

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  21. It must be lonely for you without Benny, Lily. It might be a lot of fun to have a new brother or sister.

    Woofs,
    Tommy

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  22. I say YES. you need a brother of sister. You never for get Benny but there is always room for more furfriends.
    Bentley

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  23. It's a difficult decision to make, especially when you've had two dogs that are very bonded to each other. I think that in general, dogs like the company of other dogs (that's why Dex goes to daycare). That said, I was spoiled by the wonderful, mutual, bond of my first two dogs. While subsequent pairings of dogs got along OK, I never again had any two that adored and relied on each other the way my Pi and Angus did. So, do get a brother or sister, but remember that you will need to be patient with getting to know each other.

    Mango Momma

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  24. The Mango Mama is a wise and wonderful advice giver! Maybe you should go visit with some potential brothers or sissy's.
    Smileys!
    Dory

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  25. Maybe angel-Benny is whispering in your ear that he doesn't want you to be sad anymore, and a new friend might help?

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  26. Oh sweet Lily. Nobody will ever replace Benny BUT we bet he'd want you to keep having fun so he can look down and see you enjoying yourself. He will always be in your heart, someone else just might keep you busy :-)

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  27. We say go for it !!!!!!!!!!!! Benny will ALWAYS have a special your heart but that doesn't meant there isn't room for another furbaby to love and give a wonderful home too and we doggies are pack animals - we do better with buddies and you need someone to play with:)

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  28. Lily you and mom have a ton of love to share! And I am sure stuffie is in need of a break. There is a lucky bro or sis just waiting for you and we expect Benny will help you find he/she. Will it be a FBD?

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  29. If the thought is there the time is right. Nothing can replace Benny but loneliness is not a nice place to visit. We hope you and mum find a wee one to at least fill part of that huge void Benny has left behind. We pray Bennys' spirit guides you to the right choice.
    Best wishes Molly

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  30. Dear Lily,
    Your time is up for thinking and debating, go get that little sister or brother!

    Love, Rosiebelle

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  31. How great to not only get a sibling but to resuce one!!!! Now you will be saving the life of another pupper who needs help!

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  32. We hope you get a new brother or sister Lily!

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  33. Why....YES!!!! I thinks you could teach a brudder or sissy lots of neato stuffs Lily!!! WooooHoooo!!!
    Kisses,
    Ruby ♥

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  34. Benny would be the Happiest :O)
    You MUST. And soon because we can't wait!

    Excited,
    Buddy, Ginger and Shadow

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  35. oh lily, that would be wonderful. what better way to honor benny, than to rescue another doggie in need.
    wags, bailey unleashed

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  36. Lily, I have only one thing to say. Get a Great Dane brother!! They are sooooo easy to boss around hehehe. Otherwise, we think it is a great idea whatever you decide on! No worries, and love, Stella (Bossy Big Sister) and Rory (Downtrodden younger brother, sigh)

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  37. We think you were a FABULOUS sister to and for Benny... and it would be a very much wonderful TRIBUTE to HIM.
    Maybe you could get your PAWS WET... by trying a Foster ... just to see how you like it.

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  38. Dear Lily. From what I understand having just one Frenchie is not the best so I think you should find a sister or a brother. If we didn't have a Lily in our family(a Bichon-Poodle that my daughter has)we would definitely need to get Hunter a sibling.
    Can't wait to see what happens.
    Wags, Noreen & Hunter

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  39. Go for it Lily, no one will EVER replace Benny but you will have fun :) xxooxxx

    Mollie and Alfie

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  40. Lily I think you should. I bet Benny would want you to.Hugs.
    Sue B

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  41. It's hard to know when the right time is, I think. I also think that if you're debating....then you're kind of deciding ;) I wish you the best of luck in finding a new family family member! <3

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  42. Do. It. NOW!

    Your Pals,

    Murphy & Stanley

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  43. lily I think that is a pawsome idea!!!! For BOTH of you xoxo

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  44. You would not think about it if it was't the right time. Yes, yes, and yes :-)

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  45. I think it's a great idea! You wouldn't be considering it if it wasn't the right time.
    Nola

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  46. We thinks it is a PAWESOME idea. There are so many doggies and kitties that need homes. And we thinks Benny would be very pleased to know that you honored the love you have for him by sharing your home with a doggie that needed a family.

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  47. We know this sibling would never replace Benny, just like Phody didn't replace our Gemi, but they create a new place in our hearts. Wishing you luck with your search. Lee and Phod

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  48. Lily,


    I think that's a lovely idea, Just think Valentines day is coming soon.
    A little brother or sister would be a perfect gift.
    Your heart is ready Benny is still there but there is always room for more love.

    xo Cinnamon

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  49. Hank you for all your comments friends
    Lily

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  50. GO FOR IT. Benny will put the right pup in your path :)

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  51. I would love to see you with a new brother or sister! It's always more fun to make sure the humans don't know who to blame! Paws crossed for you!


    Bunny

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  52. Aw I know it's hard. Hang in there. Take your time remember the good times of Benny!

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  53. Hi! I's back to blogging again! I were on Dogster, but dey are closing it down.

    It are always more fun to have a sibling around - somebody else to blame for dose accidents da people find, BOL!

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  54. I think its so unselfish of you Lily---to be thinking of sharing some of the love that comes to you with another doggy.
    Of course Benny lives in your heart and ours too,, but I think he would like for another doggy to feel some love too.
    Very very unselfish heart you have.
    love
    tweedles

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  55. I think Benny would understand if you got another doggy. You'll always have a special place in your heart for him. You won't be replacing him by any means, but it would be nice to not be a lonely only.

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  56. Lily I think it would be lovely to offer your home and heart to a new bro or sis...we all need a same species friend...and we never replace those we have lost but we do bring a new life that's unique into our world..pretty sure you have already made the decision sweet girl :) hugs and lovies Fozziemum and gang xx

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  57. Hi Lily!
    I love the photo, you look totally chilled out and oh so cute!
    I think that Benny wouldn't mind you having a new brother or sister at all, it would be something really loving to save a doggie in need and you will always have Benny in your heart just like he is in mine, we will never forget him and neither will you, its just time to have a brother or sister to share beating up stuffies and even better to beat up each other, play fighting with a friend is the BEST! Love Frank xxxxxx

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  58. Nothing helps heal a broken heart like helping another pup in need! I KNOW there's a pawfect brother or sissy out there for you.

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  59. Great idea! Or consider fostering one on a trial basis to see if they play just the right way.

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  60. We think that is a fabulous idea! You get a playmate and some pup gets a forever home!

    XXXOOO Daisy, Bella & Roxy

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  61. Lily, we think you and your mom should take your time. It's a big decision, although it would be wonderful to provide a home to a dog in need. We applaud you for thinking about rescuing. Just take your time and do it when it feels right. If that's tomorrow or never, as long as it feels right in your head, heart and gut, it's the right time.
    Pugs and kisses

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  62. I vote yes! There are so many in need...

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  63. We agree with Brenda and vote yes. Since we are in rescue we see SO MANY needing loving homes. You and your Mom would surely give a lot of live and happiness to a brother or sister needing a home. We think Rescue Rocks! We don't think Benny would mind. AND. you have lots of good memories and pics of him. Good luck with whatever you decide. :-)
    Barb and the furkid crew

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  64. We totally agree Lily, a furend would be wonderful! Benny would be very proud of you and Mom.

    Hugs,
    Lily Belle & Muffin

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  65. If you and your peep feel ready... Make sure you're ready to share your hearts again...

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  66. Let me know when you're 100%...my peep knows families that rescue pups and might be able to help (they're local).
    oxox
    Daisy

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  67. With a sit like that, I definitely think you should get a sissy or a brother.

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